— a love letter for the run-aways —

The Wild & Quiet Guide
to Running Away Together

We've shot 184 elopements across the Pacific Northwest, Iceland, the Dolomites, and most of the trails between. This is everything we tell our couples before we point a camera at them — the locations we love, the permits nobody warns you about, the weather you'll actually face, and the small details that turn a beautiful idea into a day you'll cry remembering.

Chapter One

Where We Love to Run Away

our home turf

The Oregon Coast — Cape Kiwanda to Cannon Beach

Salt fog at sunrise, sea stacks dripping with kelp, the kind of dramatic moody light that ruins you for every other coastline. We park at Hug Point at low tide, walk the wet sand to a hidden waterfall, and read your vows with nobody else within a mile.

Best season: April–June, late September. Permit: Oregon State Parks Special Use ($50–$100).
if you want it cinematic

Mount Hood — Trillium Lake & Lost Lake

A glassy alpine lake with the mountain reflected in it at dawn. You will be cold. You will not regret it. Trillium is easier access; Lost Lake is harder to reach and twice as quiet. We bring a battered enamel coffee pot for after.

Best season: Mid-July through early October. Permit: Mt. Hood NF Special Use ($150) — apply 8 weeks out.
for the deep-forest lovers

Hoh Rainforest — Olympic National Park

Old-growth Sitka spruce dripping with moss in every direction. It is the closest thing North America has to a fairy tale. The Hall of Mosses loop is short and accessible. We've eloped couples here in October rain and called it the best day of our year.

Best season: Year-round, but bring rain gear. Permit: NPS Wedding Permit ($250) — apply 12 weeks out.
if you'll travel for it

The San Juan Islands — Friday Harbor & Lopez

Where we eloped. A ferry ride, a borrowed truck, a beach with no name on the map. Bring four close people if you want to bring anyone at all. Stop for oysters at Westcott Bay on the way back. This is the version of the day we'd choose again.

Best season: June–September. Permit: Varies by beach — county-by-county.
Chapter Two

The Permits Nobody Warned You About

Eloping on public land is legal, magical, and almost always requires a piece of paper. Most couples don't find this out until two weeks before the day and end up panicking. Here is what you'll actually need, in order, with realistic timelines.

12 wks

National Park & National Forest permits

$150–$300. Olympic, Mount Rainier, and North Cascades all require them. Apply early — popular dates fill by January.

8 wks

State park permits

Oregon and Washington both have simple online applications. $50–$100. Approvals come back in two to three weeks.

4 wks

Marriage license

Oregon has no waiting period after issue. Washington has a three-day wait. Pick up in person at the county clerk.

Chapter Three

What to Actually Pack

For her (or them)

  • A dress with a hem you don't mind on rocks and pine needles. Lace is forgiving. Silk shows everything.
  • Trail-ready hiking boots, broken in. Heels for the car.
  • A merino wool layer that disappears under the bodice — coastal mornings are 48°F in July.
  • Bobby pins. Twenty of them. The wind on the Oregon coast is a real thing.
  • Lip balm with SPF.

For him (or them)

  • A suit you can actually walk a forest trail in. Wool blend, not slim-fit. Brown beats black on camera every time.
  • Boots, not dress shoes. Real boots.
  • A flask with whatever feels right for the ceremony. Optional. Highly recommended.
  • The vows written out on paper, in a pocket that doesn't have a hole.
  • A handkerchief. Real cotton. You will use it.

For us to bring along — already in the truck

Picnic blanket, two enamel mugs, a thermos of coffee, a flask of bourbon, a small bouquet of wildflowers if you forgot one, a dry pair of socks (the most romantic gift we give), and an emergency umbrella for the moment the sky changes its mind. We have done this before. You don't have to overthink it.

— one more thing —

"The version of the day you'll remember most is the version where you let it be small. Pick a place that means something. Pick three people, or zero people. Pick weather you can love. And then forget that we're there at all — because that's when we make the photographs you'll cry about."

— Ruby & Wilder

Let's go somewhere wild together.

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